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" Dear Carol, this is the time when I'd write that it's all in the book!! I've always wanted to "say" that. I am in Holland, where I've been for 12 years...more
Dear Carol, this is the time when I'd write that it's all in the book!! I've always wanted to "say" that. I am in Holland, where I've been for 12 years. We have two daughters, 7 and 4, and another one on the way. I do speak Dutch, although we mainly speak English at home. Well, Vinz speaks Dutch to the girls and English to me. I speak English to the girls and Dutch when their friends are around. I love living here, even now when, instead of summer heat, we've had spring weather most of the summer: rainy, gray and cool. Living here has given me the freedom to explore who am I beyond the stigma attached to the black woman label. Is that enough, or do you want more?(less)
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The Singing Warrior is a tough book to read. It's not going to make you laugh, nor will it leave you with warm fuzzies. You will become an eyewitness to the sexual, emotional and physical abuse that this warrior author endured at the hands of every i...more
The Singing Warrior is a tough book to read. It's not going to make you laugh, nor will it leave you with warm fuzzies. You will become an eyewitness to the sexual, emotional and physical abuse that this warrior author endured at the hands of every institution that should have protected her: family, the educational system, the church, the immediate community. You will be confronted with situations that, as a reader, leave you asking how a beautiful little angel girl could have withstood. Yet she did, and this memoir stands as testimony to the unbreakable female spirit. As hard as it is to read, it's even harder to put down.
*I met Ni Bhroin last November in The Hague, Netherlands and felt an immediate connection to her and she to me. Our stories overlap in so many ways, we decided to launch our books together recently. We'll continue to pair up from time to time for readings, workshops and other events.(less)
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If you want a life-changing book, then you need to read this one today. It is so powerful.
Years ago, after months of dealing with post-partum depression after giving birth to my first child, my GP suggested I talk to a therapist to help me through t...more
If you want a life-changing book, then you need to read this one today. It is so powerful.
Years ago, after months of dealing with post-partum depression after giving birth to my first child, my GP suggested I talk to a therapist to help me through the depression. I ended up seeing a cognitive therapist for a few months, which blew my mind. I actually got the tools necessary to help me deal with my emotional reactions to situations going on around me.
Byron Katie, whose book is at heart cognitive therapy, was introduced into my life a few months ago when Sagar Simon, who counsels with The Work here in Amsterdam, gave a sample workshop at my women's networking group, Connecting Women. I won the free coaching session with him in the group's raffle, at the end of which, my mind was blown again. He suggested I read this book in order to continue my healing at my own pace.
The book's basic tenet is that all our suffering is caused by our attachment to the stories we create about our thoughts. Here's a good example because it's raining in Holland. It's raining. That's the reality. It's not causing me any stress or irritation. However, the moment I start thinking that it shouldn't be raining, I get irritated and sad. Now, the thought that it shouldn't be raining comes to me in thoughts like "I'm so tired of this weather; if it's not warm and sunny I get depressed; rain is such a pain because i get wet, etc"
This book has taught me that the rain isn't causing my irritation; my irritation is caused when I attach my belief that it shouldn't be raining. Who am I to determine whether or not it rains? It's not my business whether or not it's raining - that's Nature's business, not mine. How about I stay in my own business? How about I figure out what's really causing my irritation?
Here are the bits of brilliance that I refer to all the time:
1. There are only three types of business: mine, yours and the Universe's. Whose am I in? 2. Universe, spare me from seeking love, approval and appreciation. 3. Reality never lies.
Katie's "Work" isn't without controversy. It can be hard to swallow because, once you start doing The Work, you'll be confronted with the idea that you cause your own suffering. The beautiful part is that you can also deliver yourself from your suffering.(less)
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What I love most about Barbara Kingsolver's books is that they're completely devoid of cliche. Her writing style and choice of topics are always original. I saw this book in a small newspaper stand this past summer while vacationing in a teeny, tiny...more
What I love most about Barbara Kingsolver's books is that they're completely devoid of cliche. Her writing style and choice of topics are always original. I saw this book in a small newspaper stand this past summer while vacationing in a teeny, tiny village in the Dordogne region of France. I didn't hesitate to buy it when I learned that it dealt with Frida Kahlo, who was, arguably, one of the most thought-provoking artists of her time. And the fact that it dealt with a writer who had no idea he was a writer so he pursued his more practical talents as a cook made it a no-brainer, despite the expense. I think I paid close to twenty euros for a paperback.
I wasn't disappointed. I adored every scene with Frida Kahlo, especially the writing advice her character gives to her Soli, when he's reluctant to write a romantic novel about the Aztecs. "I think an artist has to tell the truth," she said finally." "...but mostly to be a good artist you have to know something that's true. These kids who come to Diego wanting to learn...They can paint a perfect tree, a perfect face, whatever you ask. But they don't know enough about life to fill a thimble." (p.261) I got chills when I read that.
I loved the book through the scene in which Trotsky was assassinated. I hadn't known much about Trotsky nor the Russian Revolution, but Kingsolver's writing about it with such accuracy made me run out and get some more information on it.
I do have to admit that once Harrison left Mexico for the USA, and the narrative turned toward the red scare my interest waned. However, I stuck with it and was thoroughly pleased.(less)
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With this book, Barbara Kingsolver has become one of my all-time favorite writers. It's even more beautiful than The Poisonwood Bible, which was one of the first books I read after moving to the Netherlands eleven years ago.
For me it's a book about h...more
With this book, Barbara Kingsolver has become one of my all-time favorite writers. It's even more beautiful than The Poisonwood Bible, which was one of the first books I read after moving to the Netherlands eleven years ago.
For me it's a book about how love connects us: to life, to death, to family, to our immediate environment, to the global world. Kingsolver masterfully intertwines the main characters' stories with a gentle but convincing philosophy on the delicate balance of our ecosystem. Killing a coyote, for example, has an impact, not only half way across the country but also half way through the century. It also has the power to destroy a relationship between a man and a woman.
I couldn't get enough of the loves stories, my favorite being that of Nannie and the crotchety old Garnett, both over 70! Kingsolver brilliantly juxtaposes the mating rituals of moths with those of Eddie and Deanna, and you can't help but appreciate the beauty of your own relationships. The love that Garnett has for restoring his chestnuts runs just as deeply as Lusa's love of insects and of her dead husband.
There's nothing corny about these love stories, and I recommend this book to anyone and everyone!(less)
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" I've read the first 100 or so pages, and so far I'm hooked. I'm a bit ambivalent about the stock characters, but Allende is an excellent storyteller,...more
I've read the first 100 or so pages, and so far I'm hooked. I'm a bit ambivalent about the stock characters, but Allende is an excellent storyteller, and I can barely put the book down. Carol, this book is so relevant to the state Haiti's in today. Few would believe that it was once the wealthiest of the New World colonies, even though the way it rose to prominence left a lot to be desired.(less)
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